Is grade 8 an okay age to have oral sex?

Everyone says "nothing else", "we won't have sex", and things like that. Truth is, when you start doing it your only going to start doing it more and your going to WANT more. I personally don't think 14 is an age to be doing sexual things, but it's also true that I believe that if you love someone and you trust them then things like this are alright. Just considering your age and hormone level things could get hot and heavy real fast and we all know we don't need more teenage pregnancy's! All I can say is be safe and responsible, and be positive you won't regret it down the road.