Am I looking for too much in a girl?

i think you can only expect someone to do all that, if you are willing to do the same amount for her. you will NEVER find someone perfect so i suggest you stop trying to look for what you think is the perfect girl and just wait until one comes along that is not perfect, but perfect for you! i doubt very much there is someone out there that can put up with every single thing on the list, but i'm sure if you love the girl then half of those things wont even matter. you sound like a sweet guy and i'm sure you will find someone that makes you very happy, but don't expect too much of her, she is only a girl not wonderwoman :-)